God's Recipe for Wholeness
Virginia Satir, in her book, Family Happiness is Homemade, says that “hugging is vital for our emotional well-being. Everybody feels a hunger for [hugs] throughout their lives, and unless that hunger is satisfied (by touching), there is a vital void in the emotional make-up that will cause deep unhappiness.” Dr. Satir goes on to say, “We all know that babies thrive on frequent holding – adults are the same. When we are not patted on the hand, embraced around the shoulders or hugged, we withdraw into ourselves.”
It makes me flashback to a couple of years ago. Wasn’t that something that we all missed during the times of pandemic and quarantine? Didn’t you find yourself thinking, “I really need a hug?” We all did to some extent. Why am I bringing this up? Well, the main character in our Old Testament reading for this someone was a man who NEVER got a hug. Let’s see his story.
5 Naaman, commander of the army of the king of Aram, was a great man and in high favor with his master because by him the Lord had given victory to Aram. The man, though a mighty warrior, suffered from a skin disease. 2 Now the Arameans on one of their raids had taken a young girl captive from the land of Israel, and she served Naaman’s wife. 3 She said to her mistress, “If only my lord were with the prophet who is in Samaria! He would cure him of his skin disease.” 4 So Naaman went in and told his lord just what the girl from the land of Israel had said. 5 And the king of Aram said, “Go, then, and I will send along a letter to the king of Israel.”
He went, taking with him ten talents of silver, six thousand shekels of gold, and ten sets of garments. 6 He brought the letter to the king of Israel, which read, “When this letter reaches you, know that I have sent to you my servant Naaman, that you may cure him of his skin disease.” 7 When the king of Israel read the letter, he tore his clothes and said, “Am I God, to give death or life, that this man sends word to me to cure a man of his skin disease? Just look and see how he is trying to pick a quarrel with me.”
8 But when Elisha the man of God heard that the king of Israel had torn his clothes, he sent a message to the king, “Why have you torn your clothes? Let him come to me, that he may learn that there is a prophet in Israel.” 9 So Naaman came with his horses and chariots and halted at the entrance of Elisha’s house. 10 Elisha sent a messenger to him, saying, “Go, wash in the Jordan seven times, and your flesh shall be restored, and you shall be clean.” 11 But Naaman became angry and went away, saying, “I thought that for me he would surely come out and stand and call on the name of the Lord his God and would wave his hand over the spot and cure the skin disease! 12 Are not Abana and Pharpar, the rivers of Damascus, better than all the waters of Israel? Could I not wash in them and be clean?” He turned and went away in a rage. 13 But his servants approached and said to him, “Father, if the prophet had commanded you to do something difficult, would you not have done it? How much more, when all he said to you was, ‘Wash, and be clean’?” 14 So he went down and immersed himself seven times in the Jordan, according to the word of the man of God; his flesh was restored like the flesh of a young boy, and he was clean. (2 Kings 5: 1-14 NRSV)
For all Naaman’s success and power, he lacked physical, emotional, and spiritual wholeness. Fortunately for Naaman (and for us) God has a recipe for wholeness. The question is…will we follow it like Naaman did?